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Rita Ott Ramstad's avatar

For whatever it's worth, I think you can choose kindness without ignoring differences. Kindness and anger can co-exist. Sometimes I wonder if all our problems here stem from a general inability to simultaneously hold more than one seemingly incompatible truths. We sure do love our binaries here in the US. What place might we be in now if we could be honest about the origins of our country, if we could make it OK to both admire what's admirable AND condemn what's contemptible? How much has our inability to be honest about the Civil War and those who fought it contributed to where we find ourselves now? I think we were in such a hurry to reconcile after that conflict that we never had a full reckoning with what caused it. I want to be kind to people (though I've for sure had my lady in the park moments!), but I also don't want to let them off the hook in the name of some kind of shallow peace. We can love (as a verb) people who voted for Trump while holding them accountable for the destruction their action is going to result in. Has already resulted in. Maybe that's a much deeper, truer kind of love than soothing all our feelings is? I'm not sure. Like you, I'm figuring this out as we go, and it's early days. Sending you love, Jocelyn. I appreciate your kind and tender heart.

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Emily Levin's avatar

Thanks for your big heart, Jocelyn, and the bridges of your words. I am still at the “ flipping of houses with yard signs bigger than my car” stage.

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